After completing the mountain of paperwork and receiving your acceptance letter, move-in weekend finally arrives. Emotions can run high, but the fastest way to feel at home is to start talking with the people around you, whether in class or through clubs and activities. Every course provides opportunities to connect, from shared assignments to group projects or upcoming exams. A short conversation can lead to study partners, and those classmates may later introduce you to their own friends.

At the same time, do not latch onto the first group that welcomes you. Keep meeting people, cast a wide net, and focus on relationships that feel genuine. Building a circle you truly connect with takes time and effort, but it pays off. If you struggle to connect in class, look to clubs and activities that match your interests. If you enjoy being active, intramural sports might be a fit. If not, explore the other student organizations your campus offers. During my time in college, I participated in Campus Activities Board events, wrote articles for the student newspaper, and worked in a work-study program in the athletic department. Every campus has dozens of opportunities to fill your free time, you just have to seek them out.

Getting involved early is essential, but so is being prepared. Arrive at least ten minutes before class, submit assignments on time, and keep your materials organized. Professors notice initiative and enthusiasm. As a transfer student, you bring valuable experience. Apply the study habits you developed previously and share what worked for you. Both classmates and instructors will appreciate your practical insight. During this time, share more about yourself to build connections. Asking open-ended questions invites others to share aspects of their lives, leading to deeper conversations and meaningful relationships. Pay attention to body language. If someone seems rushed or preoccupied, find a better moment. If it happens repeatedly, it may indicate they are not interested in talking. Topics could include asking about their day, thoughts on a recent game, or opinions on an assignment. Slowly building relationships ensures they grow naturally and do not feel forced.

Once you are settled, start updating your curriculum vitae. Include education, skills, awards, and activities. Advisors and career services can guide you, and examples are readily available online. Your current circumstances are only a starting point; where you go next is up to you. Assumption University offers extraordinary opportunities for those willing to seize them. By getting involved, arriving prepared, and reaching out to others, you will find a home away from home and light the way for your future.